Likewise if you are strong and powerful others will notice.If you are calm and in control the slow movement of your eyes and the ability to hold someone's gaze will communicate the message that you value yourself and are ready to interact.
Results of the questionnaires indicated that couples who participated in mutual eye contact reported stronger feelings than any other group. They should and they do look at each other, but they look away when the other person looks back. Because if we accept that we need to look at strangers to introduce ourselves, why then do we find ourselves not able to look people we find attractive in the eye?Look at the commuters on a subway platform or in a subway carriage. They use devices such as ads and books and papers so that they don't look at each other. Because when we look at each other and make eye contact something very personal happens. Well the answer may lie in the fact that we are scared when looking that we will instantly see disapproval for our glances and will be rejected.This leads to the glancing and return-glances scenario that forms the basic ritual of demonstrating interest.Usually, one person , let's say in a bar, sees someone they like and will check them out.